The Evolution of Modern Courtship: Effort, Value, and Balance

Not all women are the same.Some women are tall, some are petite. Some are blondes, some are brunettes. Some genuinely enjoy dressing well and invest a lot into how they look. Others are more laid-back and couldn’t care less what they’re wearing.But somehow, with today’s trends, spending money on an every woman has become “shit.”And, of course, that’s convenient for men to tell her “I will not take care of you in the future so don’t complain later”. Well, honest. Due to your intelligence you read it clearly and actually don’t get upset later when he will give a shit about you 😁Instead of inviting you to dinner and showing respect for your time, they invite you for coffee.And no, I’m not saying a man has to pay for a woman. I’m not saying he must carry the financial responsibility in a relationship or a family. That’s not a rule, and I completely respect people who see it differently. So don’t complain later.But today, in my opinion, this mindset is going too far.What’s even more surprising is that many women are actively supporting these trends. Maybe that’s what ultra-progressive Western culture looks like now.Personally, I believe there should be a balance.A man should respect your time.And it’s not about the amount of money. It’s never been about the amount.It’s about the gesture. How this starts so it ends. 🤔Don’t let anyone manipulate you.Don’t let anyone confuse you into believing that asking for basic effort means you’re asking for too much. So it starts so it ends.Respect yourself.Because if this keeps going, it can reach a point where it doesn’t matter what kind of woman you are—you’ll simply end up feeling uncomfortable, undervalued, and disrespected with the years after.